Its like 12dn94dst said. The greeks are human. I mean I know what you saying though on the outside looking it might seem unappropriate. At the smae time try and understand that just like you may fight with your sister, you may have a fight with a soror. Just like you may have family members that you can not really stand you may run into this situation with a soror. People who are a part of greek orgs. have more than that part of their life that exists. For example you may see two Deltas or Zetas or which ever, arguing amongst each other, but if you look a little closer what you really see is two women who are having dispute that just happen to be a part of the same org. Its the same with the confrontations between two different sororities that one may think is going on, BUT there may be an AKA who does not get along with a DElTA but that does not necessarily mean that everyone in each org or even in the particular chapter has a problem with one another. Maybe even the actual problem some may have with one another does not have anything to with the sorority anyway. I too am interested in joining one of these lovely sororities. On the campus I attend there may be individual conflicts from time to time but when it all comes down to it they still have much love for each other. I hope that the things you have witnessed does not deter you form wanting to join the sorority of your choice. If you continue in your interest and are honored to be a part of one of these orgs. you will see that no matter how you much you love your sorority you may meet some sorors that you just do not mesh well with. That is okay as long when it comes down to business yall can get the job done. I just wanted to put my ten cents in, especially because I notice alot of people get on the greeks for things of this nature. Its unforutnate that we do fight amongst ourselves(people in general) but its a part of life. People must remember that when one pledges and crosses he/she does not forfeit his/her humanity.
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