LLOOOLLL - I really would have up shit creek if Constance would have said no while in front of my church. Seriously, I think folk need to be able to say no if it is in his or her best interst. I always say that folk need to take time to get to know him or heself before becoming involved. I dated my first girl from 6th grade until my junior year of college. I hated that chic by then and now wish I had just played the field. To those under 30 - - - WAIT WAIT WAIT - Live, Learn , Enjoy and know thyself.