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Originally Posted by jessXIca
But they did it for her own good...it's not like the chapter has something against married people, I mean, it would be because there's no way a 28 year old married woman would fit in and be comfortable with a bunch of 18 year olds.
Besides, I thought married women were forced to take alumni status anyway?
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That's an extremely condescending thing to say. You have NO IDEA what this woman's status was, or whether she would have enjoyed being in the chapter. Everyone is different. Age is only a number.
That's like you going into a store and them refusing to sell you a pair of pants and saying "this is for your own good, you wouldn't like them or look good in them."
Some groups force married women to go alum, but not all (thank God). And I would bet even in those groups where it is "policy" that there are chapters who ignore it, because it's a really stupid rule.