I don't think that a pimps and hos party is racist, as a few have mentioned, but I think it is absolutely inappropriate and insensitive. You have to consider the subculture you are glorifying and celebrating when you host such a party.
Do you have any understanding of the dynamic that exists between pimps and hos? It is nothing short of modern day slavery. That we continue to allow it to exist in our society that so prizes freedom is a travesty. Pimps recruit vulnerable women, often runaways, immigrants, the very poor, etc. A common ploy is to have his "main" ho start up a friendship with the vulnerable woman. Soon she'll be introduced to the pimp. Maybe they'll have sex, but initially there is no mention of prostitution. He'll give her gifts and gain her trust. Not long afterwards, he'll tell her she owes him money for the gifts. "Debt bondage" is a very common means of controlling and sexually exploiting women. He'll then tell her how she can earn the money by prostituting herself. If she tries to refuse, he'll threaten to tell her family about their relationship. He'll threaten to kill or harm family members. Some pimps rely primarily on violence, but these are not the most common. They are called gorilla pimps. Most instead rely on threats, manipulation, and psychological forms of coercion. The woman may think she can pay off the debt soon, but this never happens, due to usurious interest rates and other deceitful practices. By now, she has been inducted into the world of prostitution. She is now considered to be in the pimp's "stable" (this is the word they use for the women they control). She has to bring in a certain amount of money each night. If she doesn't, she's often beaten or otherwise punished. Pimps commonly put women in the trunks of their cars, sometimes for days at a time, or lock them in closets (they prefer not to bruise them as this can hurt profits). Rape is extremely common, and women cannot refuse tricks. The women live in such a state of terror that they cannot escape. It is nothing but slavery. There are complex sets of rules that women must follow. If a ho looks at another pimp, she must be punished; it often means a beating or a day in the trunk of the pimp's car. Thus, the women learn never to look up and always stare at the ground.
Meanwhile, the pimps make 200k/yr
per girl. A huge number of the women involved are under 18, often as young as 12-14. The pimps wear gold jewelry, drive expensive cars, and wear fur coats. All of this money is earned by the selling of women's lives. The women rarely make more than $10/day.
I have to ask you if this is a lifestyle that you think should be glorified and celebrated. Women especially, is this what sororities were created for?
Another important note is that some people have suggested the name "Players Ball". This is probably the worst name you could choose, as it already has a well accepted meaning. A very famous pimp known as "Bishop Don Magic Juan" started the tradition of the players ball to commemorate his birthday. Each year, large numbers of pimps get together at players balls around the country (Chicago, Atlanta, Miami, and other locations) and pass out awards to each other. They do this in plain sight of society, flaunting their crimes for all to see with impunity. Pimp of the Year is given to the pimp who controls the most women the most brutally and makes the most money. Meanwhile these poor women are dragged to the players ball where they appear virtually naked and as nothing but sex objects for men to leer at.
Add to this that many pimps are involved in human trafficking rings in which women are transported from other countries (or sometimes within the United States) and forced to prostitute themselves. Currently, between 15,000 and 20,000 women are trafficked to the United States per year for forced sexual servitude, and approximately 2 million are trafficked per year in the world. Major source countries are Eastern Europe, Southeast Asia, and South America. To learn more about this problem, check out the website for the Polaris Project (
www.polarisproject.org) or the International Justice Mission (
www.ijm.org). Here is a link with some actual testimonies from survivors of human trafficking:
http://www.humantrafficking.com/huma..._mainframe.htm
Here are the stories of two American girls who were victimized in the US. Note, while these do not contain any adult images, they are from one of the major anti-trafficking sites and contain some disturbing stories. You have been warned. These are true stories and will help you to see the reality of what pimps and hos are all about. If you can stomach it, they are really unbelievable stories and will change how you look at prostitution in this country.
Jill:
http://www.ex-oriente-lux.org/acc_usa_01.html
Jen:
http://www.ex-oriente-lux.org/acc_usa_02.html
Another really interesting website if you can read Spanish relates the story of a 23 year old woman named Marita Veron who was abducted by sex traffickers near her home in Argentina. The website is run by her mother, who has spent the last several years searching for her daughter. Marita still has not been found, although they have reports from other escaped women who knew her, and she was sold to a brothel in Spain for a couple thousand dollars. To her pimp and the johns, she is just another ho. To her 7 year old daughter Micaela, she is the mom who never came home. For the first year of school, Micaela's grandmother had to go with her every day, because she would just break down and cry uncontrollably on a regular basis. (
www.casovaron.org.ar)
I urge you all to reject this subculture that objectifies and degrades women and everything that goes with it. Don't use the word pimp to ever mean anything positive, and don't support this lifestyle. It's a human rights travesty. Have some respect for women. Help speak for those who have lost their voices. Tell the world that we will not tolerate such practices anymore. They have no place in civilized society. This subculture should be ostracized and scorned, not glorified and celebrated.