I was a deb (in MS) and the only people I've ran into that even know what that is have been in the south. Asking about being a deb here in Kansas gets you a
look. No where here do they do this, not even at the high end country clubs (which totally blows my mind because there is only so much golf you can play when plunking down a minimum of 20K a year). I'm sorry but if I'm paying that much a year, my daughter would be coming out of cannon through a ring of fire!
Anyway, depending upon where I live, I doubt if I will care if my daughter is one or not.