One of my goals in life is to break the line of my family's ways and to give my own children a completely different family life from the one I had; In fact I wonder whether I'm even going to let my future kids spend time with certain relatives. It's sad to know that some men wouldn't even give me that chance by judging me by my family.
anyway...
yellow flags:
-playing music or suggesting movies that are degrading to women
-blatantly showing off wealth or talking a lot about money
-telling me I'm too quiet (noticing that I'm quiet is fine, but if he's acting like its a big problem, I'm not the one for him)
red flags:
-using language himself that is degrading to women
-trying to get sexual after I've made it clear that I don't want to
-badmouthing Christianity
-not being able to discuss current affairs/social issues or having views that are too different from mine
I might think of more later.