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From what you've said, these girls sound like they are in the sorority for the recogntion of wearing the letters (ordering merchandise) and the power trip that they are getting from dominating others (causing drama at your meetings to force a compromise, looking forward to paddling pledges, etc.) They are also a definite liability to your organization because of how they want to treat future pledges (And honestly, who paddles pledges these days? Fraternity guys in movies?). It really might be for the best if they leave the sorority, whether it is their own decision or more of a "mutual" decision. Perhaps everyone could sit down (or you could just sit down) with these 2 girls and discuss everyone's real reason for founding/joining the sorority. Emphasize your motto/creed and the non-hazing aspect of it. Remind everyone that if these are not the reasons that they are involved or dedicated to the organization, they may want to rethink their involvement. This will hopefully make it clear to these girls that if they are not in it for the right reasons, they need to leave.
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