PS- A lot of people leaving recently might have been a good thing. Ask yourself if they were assets to the chapter. If they were not, then good riddance because by leaving they saved you the trouble of getting rid of them. If they were assets to the chapter, then you have to really figure out what is wrong with the chapter to cause good guys to leave.
And don't rule out removing that recent pledge who is causing trouble as an active. De-brothering an active is serious business, but it is always an option. If someone is actively messing up your rush activities, that is a hell of a good reason to get rid of him. Better to lose him now than lose future pledges who might actually do the chapter some good.
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