[sarahanne]

It caused quite a stir with my grandmother and aunts and what-not. My aunt (who was a charter member of the same chapter) was totally mad at the Phi Mu chapter and wrote letters to their nationals. I didn't think it was such a big deal (still isn't to me, c'est la vie)! The only reason I wanted Phi Mu was because I was legacy, the girls there were awesome, and still are, but not for me. Besides, our chapter "lodge" is bigger and it has a fireplace!