First I think you need to find out if it's true that he's still with his ex, just to be sure. You're being WAY too nice to not confront him or anything out of respect for his friendship with this other guy. Your mutual friend should not have said anything to you if it was so important to him. What did he expect you to do with that info? If you confront the "boyfriend" and he doesn't defend himself, then dump him. If he's been cheating on you the whole time, and you stay, what does that tell him about you? If what the mutual friend says is true, it's not like this cheating was a one-night mistake or anything, it's been continuous. Just lose him, don't try to get revenge in subtle ways or waste your time any more.
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