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gammazetagrl:
i can empathize with you to a point, but my situation is a little different. a guy i had been friends/lovers with for going on 5 years always told me he loved me and loved being with me, but didnt have time for a girlfriend because he was going to school full time and working a few jobs. for the first 2 years this really bothered me...i thought something was wrong with me because he didnt want a relationship outside of what we had. so when he would invite himself over, i felt bad for him because he went on and on about how lonely he was. well blah blah blah - about 6 months ago, i get a call from some girl named tina at WORK to tell me she knew who i was, and wanted to let me know she had been living with him for the last 3 years and that he had been lying to me and like 4 other girls. good lord! there was one girl that was ready to move to knoxville from roanoke va (where his parents live) to be with him. suddenly all the late night phone calls, and never being invited to his house made sense.
ok there is an answer for you here somewhere...lol, i promise im getting to it. dont go psycho. its unattractive and scary. this tina girl tried to conspire a reunion of sorts and get all of us girl to confront him. you know it made me angry that he lied to me (even about being in school!!!), but i have forgiven him. hes stupid and i realize a bit pathetic - hes almost 30 and still relies on his parents financially, he cant commit, he is an avid cheater...and it make him all the more unattractive to me.
how long have you been with this guy? i assume only a few months? cut your losses. if anything, let all your girlfriends know what a tool he is, and let that be your revenge...preventing him from dating anyone you know. but i wouldnt try the jealousy route...its so 8th grade. dont play games - be above that. dont waste your time keeping him around so he can spend money on you...it will only make you look petty and inmature. move on girl - find someone who deserves to be with you! good luck!
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