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Not to take away from the levity in this thread, I do think a couple of things are in order. Evaluating a fraternity/women's fraternity/sorority is analagous to a mate selection in some ways. We can impressed by outward beauty,sexiness,wealth,station, prominence,etc. at first only to find out that the person's "not all that" as a human being. And vice versa, even though,theoretically,they aren't mutually exclusive. Everyone has "issues." What can you deal with and still grow healthily as a better person in that relationship. Similar dynamics hold forth in each of us talking about the "best Fraternity/sorority." It's more than what's being said at a smoker,informational, rush event or on a website.It's about honestly looking at the good, the bad, and the grotesque (not just ugly) in your group and still coming away with the positive inspiration to be and do better.
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