Ask one of your officers. At least have her big talk to her and tell her what is and isn't acceptable and explain to her WHY it's important to uphold y'all's standards. My mom is a different sorority than me but she always told me that one pledge class can change a whole chapter, because it only takes a few members to ruin a chapter's reputation. And an "old girl" in my chapter reminded me that people at a party don't say, "I saw Susie Q. drunk and hooking up with this guy at the party." They'll say, "I saw that Alpha Gam being a slut at the party." Remind her that her sorority is a part of who she is on campus, and they are a part of her. If she doesn't like having someone in authority over her and doesn't want to be held accountable for her actions, tell her that maybe sorority life isn't for her.
Last edited by ΑΓΔSquirrelGirl; 05-28-2007 at 12:12 PM.
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