Something to keep in mind during prefs. . .look around the room at the other pnm's. they're the ones who will be in your new member class, and most likely the ones who you will be closest to in the sorority. don't not go to a sorority because of the potential new member class, but keep in mind some of these women will be your sisters too. that might also help in your decision if you have 3 fabulous prefs and you don't want to be there until christmas deciding!
i've had a great time reading your thread! good luck for the rest of recruitment.