I would be honest and up front. I like openess and honesty. My involvement in a sorority is among the first things I tell a guy or anyone else for that matter. A conversation with me goes something like this:
The guy: "So what do you do for fun?" (or something to that effect).
My response: "Well I'm in school and in a sorority and I work."
If they have a problem with that well then a relationship with them isn't meant to be and I want someone who either could careless about my greek involvement (regardless of their opinion on it) or is in support. I can not have someone that is against greeks in general and against me being in the greek system because I'm greek for life and proud of it. I plan to help out my alum chapter and really be involved and the only thing that would hold me back from this goal would be time constraints with my job. So, I have to have someone who doesn't care what I do as long as I'm happy or is in support of greek life himself or is a greek himself.
YAY FOR GREEKS! LOL
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IYASA
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