Personally, I'd talk to my bf about the promotion. If he doesn't seem to be enthusiastic or encouraging about me getting the promotion, then he can get the finger AND the boot! I always remember a couple of lines from Dr. Dre's song, "Been There, Done That." He said, "Ladies get your paper too. Don't expect for no man to support you. Keep it true." And I will surely do that and then some!!!   I can always find someone else who can support me wholeheartedly.
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