I think it all depends on which black women you surround yourself with. I also think it depends on the situation. Some black women will help a sista out when it comes to fighting someone else, but when it comes to academics and/or the workplace, they can definitely try (some succeed) to tear other sistas down. I don't know why this happens, but I think it may be b/c some of them are afraid of seeing a sista succeed or get ahead of them, knowing good and well the other sista is more qualified than she is.
Well, that's my ray of sunshine for now. Until next time, ladies! 
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"Having a nasty attitude won't yield you the results you want when you want them; it'll just make people steer clear of you and your toxicity in order to keep from being contaminated by you and your nastiness."- Me
Last edited by lil_sunshine; 06-21-2006 at 02:37 PM.
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