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You can make it through. I am not saying it is easy. As cliche as it sounds, if you are meant to be, you will make it through. There were very hard times between me and my husband when I joined a sorority, partially because his parents were the stereotypical anti-greek new england intellectual types and pushed this on him. When he saw that his sports team at college was just like a fraternity, it got easier.
Now, 7 years out of college....we are happily married, even after going to grad school in different timezones....
It can be done. Whether you both want to is up to you.
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