National values should permeate, not necessarily be mirror exactly, throughout a chapter--if they don't, then maybe the group should be local.
Also, I would encourage a group to work with their national to change things that are unsatisfactory--sometimes, national orgs are not even aware of the issues with local chapters.
I didn't mean to imply before that all locals don't want to follow the rules--I was in a local and we didn't haze, we followed the rules (most of the time)etc. What I meant was that this particular group seems to not want to follow any rules but their own...and I guess in that case, paying for all those services and assistance really doesn't make sense.
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