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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby
Don't always be so sure that suzie PNM put her legacy chapter first on her bid card, either.
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AMEN! I have known many PNMs at Ole Miss that lie to their mothers, their sisters, their friends in houses, etc....afterall it is their choice and their business. Perhaps they don't want to upset mom or sister or friend...
My sister was a legacy to Theta, double legacy to AOII, and then had courtesies to Kappa. She ended up going AOII but still, she could have lied to me and put something else!
Side Note: This year Panhellenic did not release legaices to the sororities. Meaning the ICS Recruiter program used to list all of the legacies a members had. (i.e. Mary is has an AOII mom, Theta sister, Pi Phi sister, AOII aunt.) This year it only listed the legacies your own sorority had. Therefore, all PNMs were probably given a more fair chance and their legacies were not held against them. (Some houses will assume you are going to your legacy and drop you.) There were a few big legacies who joined other houses because they were given a more fair and equal recruitment. On the flip side, if the PNM had a rec her legacies were most likely written on the rec or her resume, so the chapter could find out that way and if they did some good research.