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Old 10-16-2006, 10:50 AM
ReachTheLimit ReachTheLimit is offline
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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog View Post
But that's exactly what we're trying to tell PNAI's. Yes, ritual makes sororities special, but as an Alum, you MAY participate in ONE OR TWO rituals a year, if that, and that's if you happen to be in an active Alum chapter or are an active adviser.

And within sorority Alum chapters, you constantly have fluctuating membership. People show up or not all the time. There's not some special OMG I HAVE TO GO BECAUSE I'M A MEMBER FOR LIFE thing that keeps Alum chapters running.
I am not under the impression, nor have ever been told, that ritual was done on a regular basis, especially at the AA level.

However, I disagree with Penguin that this isn't what bonds them. Yes the people are important and the work that is involved is important, but to say ritual isn't a bonding process, a commitment, and a vow to that organization for life is the same thing as dismissing the importance of it.

And I have never, ever seen a sorority woman say or write that it wasn't something very dear and precious to them.