...My family is full of XYZ...at one point I thought they were the only sorority...I can remember thinking I want to grow up and be like my aunts because they dress well, they always held their heads up high they seem to know everything and everyone, always smiled, my aunts are such classy ladies (this is the 13 year old me). Well my favorite aunt took me to this "junior XYZ" club meeting. I was like am I missing something, these ladies (the members) are nothing like my aunts at all. The girls in the meeting were shall we say a little unladylike and were talking about how they were gooing to grow up and be in XYZ and I was like if y'all are in it i'm out I was so disappointed
(that was of course a hasty decision) I revisited the meetings two more times and that was that...fast forward 3 years and I began to look up other sororities...that's when I knew AKA is the right way...and I don't feel any conflict I feel that many of the attributes I was raised to value in life like being well spoken, carrying yourself well, being an example for others to follow
, being a leader not a follower, and self confidence contributed to me wanting to be in AKA...I can't help it if my aunts in XYZs raised an AKA......
As far as my daughter (when I have one) I won't lie there is only one way and I'm confident she'll see what I saw...if the imposssible happened and she chose another way...she'd have some Explaining to do...it would be 21 questions in my house and NO I'm not paying