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Originally Posted by sdsuchelle
Oh, I know for sure. I've seen it with my own eyes.
I mean, she probably doesn't drink any more than some other college students, but she also smokes marijuana.
I also heard that the night she met my boyfriend, she had originally told his younger brother that he was "hot" and she "wanted to $&@! him". She went on to tell another friend the same thing, and then finally moved onto my boyfriend.
I'm not really a jealous ex about this, though. I'm glad our relationship is over -- it wasn't right for me. I'm just mad that this girl has ruined any chance of me having a friendship with him again.
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It would probably be better if you were as honest as possible about your anger over your (ex)boyfriend issue with this girl. Drinking and smoking weed are things that many college students do, including women in sororities(although there were no ADPis on my campus, I bet there are sisters in your org across the nation who do those things). You might seem like a snitch instead of someone who feels rightfully scorned. Just say that she would be a detriment to the quality of sisterhood in your organization. If she is too promiscuous, say that you don't want your sisters to catch an STD or something. It's harsh... but I feel you. If a potential aspirant of my fraternity did something like that to me, ruining my personal life like that, I'd make sure that either he never wants in, or that the entire campus knows I can't stand him. And you know how strongly I feel about keeping intra-fraternity beef behind closed doors.