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You missed my whole point, which was that some of the MEMBERS may be shy. The pledges may never get to know them if everything is shoved into the constant group, group, group and I think that's sad.
Having it be something that has a structure to it and knowing it's part of the pledge program takes a lot of the pressure off both parties, IMO.
And as far as the over-programming - I think having people feel like they have to hang out at the house or wherever constantly to even see the pledges, or be required to come to endless group activities is FAR worse than a 15 minute interview.
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