kddani, otterOX and Alphafrog:
KAY10 is just a "lil boy"
(if you know what I mean)... Just like a horse... He still needs to be "broken in", trained (potty-wise and otherwise), and other things required for his "maturity".
You just take his questioning in "stride" and ask him if he could handle the
"sets of nine" for at least 10-20 minutes...
KAY10-
Really sweetheart, there are plenty of young ladies out there with everything going for them that get caught up with the "thugs". Folks have written songs, books and movies.
I guess most women are hardheaded and just give up on themselves for lame as reasons.
But even though you say you aren't a thug, but your not a doormat, then what are you? A player? That makes you cavorting with the "thug enemy"--kinda sneaky...