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I remember a PNM when I was a PX who just loved her PX and preffed at two chapters-- one of which the PX was a member of. These two chapters are pretty similiar. Anyway, that night when the PNMs went to go and rank their final choices, we told the PNMs if they needed to talk to us, they could. The aforementioned PNM was absolutely miserable, shaking and crying while she tried to convince her PX to reveal her affiliation. I'm not sure what happened, but I think the PX did give in or at least gave her the hint she needed. The PNM pledged the PX's chapter and became her little sis. But that's one extreme example! I think the PX's at my school did a good job of being discreet--- disaffiliation back then lasted all summer and we enjoyed playing dress up to seem to fit one stereotype or another or to have the girls guess. Of course, back then it was put a bow in your hair if you want them to think you're an XYZ or wear brown lipliner and white eyeliner to make them guess ABC. (Don't ask. It was the 90s.)