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Originally Posted by Drolefille
As for it being a secret, usually you get "temporary" bigs (heart sis for example) for the new member period. Shortly before initiation, there's usually a big sis revealing, where, through creative and fun ways, you discover who your big sis is. Sometimes you get some input, sometimes the members pick, that depends on the chapter.
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This varies by organization. We don't have temporaries at all. In fact, we don't have bigs/littles, we have sister-mothers and sister-daughters. You know who your sister-mother is when you attend the new member pinning ceremony and keep that one person your whole life. All 3 of my sister-daughters were rush crushes of mine and my sister-mother was the member I talked to most during recruitment and had really connected with. It doesn't matter what your grade level is. The sister-mother is a mentor.