[33girl]

Just realize that every person is a different person. If you buy one lipstick that doesn't work it doesn't mean you should never buy lipstick ever again. (Yes it's all about makeup for me, LOL)

I will completely agree w/ what t*p said and say DON'T make the new person pay for what the old person did. Don't feel like you have to use the whole male gender first because ONE male used you. If you have any thoughts like that going through your head, you shouldn't be dating at all...no matter how "casual" you may think things are or "he's a big boy, he can take care of himself." Guys can be hurt a lot more than you think and if you catch someone innocent in your crossfire, you're going to have a hard time sleeping. (Or you should, anyway.)