Hi Sorors and Sisterfriends,
Well, Well, Well,
I think I would have to pack my bags and leave. I say these things because although we are in a serious relationship, we are not married or even engaged for that matter. If it is meant to be when it will be. And since it seems that he has his MIND MADE UP, I would have to go. I can come and visit and vice versa. But to give up on a big job promotion for something that isn't all that... well let's say permanent could come up and bite you in the butt especially if you stay in your current town of residence and you struggle to find a job that is paying you at the same rate you are about to be promoted for. You may resent your decision. This is something like I am dealing with now, graduation is right around the corner and I will be relocating (law school) because I have goals and I have a purpose THAT I WILL SEEK TO ACCOMPLISH. Sometimes if you love something you have to let it go...if it comes back then it was meant to be.
Sorry if it sounds harsh
