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Originally Posted by _Opi_
No offense, but to the people saying that virgins are not (generally) comfortable with their sexuality, I would have to disagree. A person can be comfortable with their sexuality and exercise some self-control (let's say because of religious values) AND not everyone has "emotional" baggage because their hymen is intact.
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I don't disagree at all - there are clearly a wide variety of reasons and realities for virginity. In and of itself, virginity is not a problem.
The problem are the associated effects, some of which are unavoidable - for instance, without having had sex, it would be somewhat difficult to know what a person desires out of sexual intercourse, or how to best achieve those things.
Beside that, I'm sure you'll agree that there are plenty of people who have sex frequently who aren't comfortable with their sexuality - hell, that's the very reason some people have frequent sex. However, I do think that there is some relationship between experience and comfort, for a large number of people - but I would absolutely never rule anything out, just like you've pointed out.