[Not a Greek]

Glad to share. It actually felt good that my story might help a bit. I'm sure you will be fine and have a great life. I was a prosecutor for ten years so let me know if you ever need mentoring in your future legal career.

Have fun and try not to think about things too much...It's easier to just move on. One day, many years from now, you will be able to look back and reflect on this whole situation and put it in perspective. Don't let it consume you.

Isn't it great to see how supportive all the women are on this site to their sisters and non-sisters alike. After all, we all share the bond of being women! Of the girls I went to college with, we are still great friends and at 40 have shared a lot of tears and laughs. Divorces, illness,weddings, kids....in other words, you don't have to be in a sorority to find the lifelong bond you long for. I'm sure it's great but there are other ways to achieve it.

Keep your head high.

Just think, ifI had pledged that sorority, I may not have met and married my husband (a greek at another school), had my kids...etc...