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Originally Posted by SoCalGirl
If you know with all your heart you don't want Pisces I would suggest politely and diplomaticaly telling the girl at Pref that you don not see yourself in their chapter and have your heart set elsewhere.
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What happened to the days of PNMs stringing sororities along until the last minute?
KitKat-- be yourself, keep and open mind and you'll know what you want when you come out of the chapters. If you honestly,truly can't see yourself as a sister at a particular chapter and would hate to wear their letters, be their friends, attend socials and represent them on campus and pay dues to them, then don't put them on your bid card. If you've connected to the members and can see them as your friends, give them a chance and take a chance on them.
Good luck. Keep your options open, but if you'd rather join Al Queda than be a member of XYZ, leave them off your bid card.