When I first joined my house, my boyfriend was DEAD against it. He thought I was going to turn into a whore and go down to the fraternities every night and cheat on him or something. I have no idea what he thought, but it was completely unjustified because he and I both knew that I would never cheat on him. I brought him over to the house and he met the girls and then felt comfortable about it. She shouldn't be angry with you for sharing your feelings about her rushing. It can be stressful on a relationship because a sorority is so time consuming, especially when she's on the other side of Recruitment, but if the relationship is meant to be it'll work out.
Hope everything gets better!
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