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					Originally Posted by DSTRen13  Yeah, my fiance and I both pledged the same semester, so that was good - I think the relationship stress probably would have been pretty bad, but we were both pretty preoccupied    
Not going to attempt to give advice to the OP; don't know enough about NPC pledging ... Although I will say that if you are *that* worried that your girlfriend is suddenly going to ditch you for fraternity guys when you have been together that long, you may want to reevaluate your relationship regardless of whether or not she pledges. | 
	
 Thats not really the issue like i said its just like I'm feeling like im getting pushed on the back burner kinda un-appreicated.  Shes just gotten to used to having me around and too used to having me always bring her flowers and rub her feet when theyre sore.  The thing is she knows that I wont leave her over a time issue but it seems like she just doesnt get it...