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					Originally Posted by ladygreek
					
				 
				But you made a point in asking if they were D9.  Then said that it mattered.  If the problem was perceived tone then that is what you should have addressed. 
			
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 I asked that because the purpose of my post wasn't to find out if anybody thought I should, I am my own man. I wanted to know whether or not I should go to the break-off session which would expose my interest in the fraternity. And the responses I got were telling me to do something (go ask the people in that chapter) that would result in exposing my interest. I figured someone who wasn't part of the D9 would not understand the reason for not wanting to put myself out there...hence why the question was asked.