[SOPi_Jawbreaker]

I don't remember where I read it, but I had come across and article awhile back on this topic. Basically, it was about how girls don't want the "nice guys" because the "nice guys" take too long to make a move. Since they've been so careful not to even seem like they're anywhere near crossing any boundaries, she's already categorized him as platonic/non-sexual/eunuch friend material. If a guy wants to get a girl, he has to come across as a sexual being from the get-go. It doesn't necessarily mean be an asshole. But if you look at these assholes that treat women like shit, you'll see that they just walk around exuding their sexuality. A woman meets one of these bad boys and she can just instantly feel that this is a sexual man. If you want to be able to get a girl, you don't have to be an asshole, but you have to be kinda flirtateous. Gently touch her or lean in close when you talk to her. Let her know from the get-go that you're interested. Because if she's not getting these signals that you're interested, you'll get mentally lumped into the same compartment as her brother. And once she's subconsciously labeled you as a non-sexual being, you've got no chance with her.