According to this article, my husband should be miserable because he married a "career girl".
Each couple needs to decide for themselves what makes sense - whether that's "he works, she stays home and cooks and cleans and minds the kids" or "she works, he stays home" or "one of us takes a few years off and re-enters the workforce once the kids are in school" or "we both work and the kids go to day care" or "we both work and we don't have kids". In this day and age, both men and women do have choices.