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Originally Posted by KAY10
What were you afraid of.
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For me, there have been a number of things both on the surface and deeper down. One issue is faithfulness. Would I be cheated on? The worst type of cheating is the emotional kind. Physical cheating is horrible, but honestly, I'd prefer it over emotional cheating.
Trust is also a serious concern. Can I tell this guy my hopes and dreams? Will he laugh at me? Will he steal them?
When I was with the bad boys, I never had to worry about them cheating emotionally (though they did cheat physically) because they didn't have enough depth to get to that point with me or anyone else. As for trust, I never shared my most precious thoughts and desires with them and they never asked for that information.
A good man, to me, is one who will guard our relationship with physical, mental, emotional and spiritual protection. But, that includes allowing me to be vulnerable without fear of attack or betrayal. So, he's got to have a good heart. I wanted a complete man...one who was manly, but also one who had the depth to really understand me. And, that's what I have.