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Originally Posted by starang21
women still want a man who's a man. soft/sensitive/cry-baby dudes don't get the girls.
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Agreed. It is natural for women to look for strength and stability in their mate. Personally, I expect a potential mate to be strong when I'm not, have a clear vision for our future and a clear plan to take us there. A man who provides me no more strength and support than one of my girls is insufficient. This doesn't mean that the guy needs to be abusive, a player, or have no weaknesses whatsoever. What I often find, though, is that guys who complain about being rejected for being 'too nice' are often setting their sites on a 'particular' kind of girl as well. If you find yourself constantly seeking out girls with insecurities or superficial interests, then it is not surprising that you would fall short of their needs.