on my campus, it would seem that Theta is very exclusive, however, if you know the girls in the house, reality is that they are very inclusive. i think some people might see Theta (or any other sorority) as exclusive becuase they are strong, confident, women who hold their heads up high and are very proud to be who they are. i've come to realize that some people are afraid of and falsely label people who are outgoing and admirable. I love my theta friends