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Originally Posted by ankh
Hey there guys. As u can see i am new here, plus i am new to all greek life.
I need some advice. Instead of joing an existing frat, i ended up joing a group of guys who are supposed to re-establish a chapter that was gone for several years now i think.
I have been reading upon some fraternity building material and one of the main points was to have a strong group of guys with good leadership skills etc etc.
Now this group of guys does not really have that... they are average kids if u can say so, good kids though. Now i need some tips on how to start this thing going. We dont have a house on campus but we do have one outside the school border which is not far away. I imagine throwing parties every day would not really work with a new frat that has only 13 members... What else would gain everyone's attention?
ps. we are planning on recruiting more people. Any suggestions would be really appreciated.
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First off, not to be redundent from other posts, Frat is not a proper word for Fraternitys. (Frats or for boys, Franternity or for Men).
I am unsure of several things:
1. You dont like the guys as they are average and dont have it.
2. They are still average kids but are going to recruite.
Are You with them or not?
If you are going to join them, You will have to make a commentment.
If it was a National who was there, you have to know if you as a local have a chance to affiliate or not. Are they helping you? Are they worth affiliating with? Are you dedicated enough to be part of it?
If you are, then heed the advice of the above posters.
It will be hard work, but if it comes to fruitation, it will be well worth if for all involved!
