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ang, is she having fun?

if she is having fun, and likes all of the groups equally, then it sounds like she cannot go wrong, whatever choice she makes. most chapters have groups within the larger group(the studious ones, the student government types, those girls who are very interested in volunteer work, etc.)-she will find the group that she gels with the best.

if she is not having fun, and is going along hoping that one group is going to really bowl her over, and none have done so yet, it may happen during pref. but then again it may not. she could accept a bid, and give the sorority a chance to grow on her-sometimes it takes more than a few days for it to be a total "sale".

if she is having a hard time trying to decide whether she wants to be a part of the greek system, or not, she should know by the time prefs. are over. she should have a pretty good idea what each sorority stands for, what activities they do thru out the year, and what they expect of their members.

i hope that she makes the decision that is best for her. you gave her some great advice and it sounds like you and your husband are supportive of her. best wishes to her.