ok, first off...hey!!!!! i'm new to this whole message board thing, but bare with me. Firstly, let me say i don't mean to offend anyone, so if i happen to step on toes, i apologize - it is not intentional. My query is this: i am interested in becoming a member in a bglo. i have read books, gone thru many websites, and really narrowed my choices down to two. My problem with my first choice sorority is this - the particular chapter here at my university. Reading the threads about skating was really interesting to me, because that is the case with sorority "X" at my school. The last line that crossed skated. Now, the previous line didn't, but a complaint was made to nationals by someone who didn't make that line, which inevitably put restrictions unto the line that followed. Now, the first line is all graduating, leaving the 'skaters' to intake. Now, i have a great deal of interest in this sorority, but i think the pledging process is an important stage that one should go through, and i would like to have the respect of fellow greeks if i was to cross. But i just don't see how i could go thru a pledge process under girls who didn't go thru anything. am i making sense? please forgive me if i use the word "pledge" instead of "haze", but hopefully you get my point. I look forward to all responses...Ahead of time, i'd say thanx to anyone who took the time out to reply...
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