My son was interested in Princeton. A representative came down for a presentation, and we found out that Princeton doesn't give any merit-based scholarships. He decided not to apply. He did apply to Dartmouth though and was accepted. Over half of what they offered in scholarships was what he brought to the table. A friend told me how well-endowed the Ivies were, too. That was just not our experience.
He was also accepted at Duke. They offered more than Dartmouth, but not enough for us to consider it. My son wants to be a doctor, so we just couldn't justify that kind of expense for his undergrad when we'd have med school to look forward to.
My son is a freshman in the Honors College at Clemson. He got all the in-state scholarships for his good grades plus other scholarships and a Clemson scholarship. We got a refund that basically will pay for his PC. He has been a Clemson fan for as long as we can remember, and I think he is very happy. He'll be even happier when he isn't ten zillion dollars in debt!
My son is smart enough and driven enough to make the most of his education, wherever that may be. I'm just glad he is not that far from home!!!
