My mom's church was having this same discussion recently and thus decided to read
All I ever did was love a man by Sharon Denise Allison-Ottey, as a way to broach the topic within the christian women's book club...
If you haven't read the book - pick it up...
Here is the author's homepage...
http://www.allieverdidwasloveaman.com/book.htm
Be safe everyone... We all are at risk regardless of our marital status, sexual preference, and morality...
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