I am an alum of Phi Mu from FSU. I am extremely proud of my sisters and of being a Phi Mu. In regards to your friend that has the bid....I would encourage her to come and hang around the girls and see if she is comfortable. I can provide you or her with the contact information of the appropriate people so she can get to know the girls better and decide for herself. I know that my sisters would love to get to know her better and would welcome her into our house. Obviously since she received a bid my sisters feel that she would fit in well. On a side note, I went to the Phi Mu holiday party this past week and also to see one of my friends go through her senior ceremony and the new pledge class seems to be having a very good time and the sisterhood is doing wonderfully
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