[Still BLUTANG]

thank you guys, these are REALLY good suggestions.

i think i'm going to sit down with the assistant and just give her some straight talk. She has 3 younger children so there is still time to prevent the mistakes THIS kid has made. i'll show her the admission criteria for a few schools (different types) and then SHE can sit down with the son to discuss his options.

i personally am worried about finding a school that not only admits him but works with him so he can remain in good standing and GRADUATE.

thanks for your suggestions!