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Originally Posted by PKPILZ003
That's reality 
I mock him because he started this thread and then came back and said that he would be ashamed - ashamed of what? falling in love with someone? if he, or anyone else is that insecure about who he is and how he feels about someone, then they shouldn't be bringing them home, much less dating them. I have no problem with you, mac, or anyone else's personal preference about who you date - when you bring shame into it, however, it says to ME that you don't feel that they are worthy of equality in YOUR eyes.
Lastly, mac, if you fell in love with a woman of another race (I know that's not your preference, but hear me out) and you had to quash that becuase of what your family thought, then you weren't in love to begin with and you have no idea what it really means. |
Actually, "reality" is that what you posted is YOUR reality.
This is all about social construction. We create this stuff and give it meaning and importance. What makes you tick doesn't have to make others tick.
I agree with the rest of your post although black men and starang21 have always been and always will be more than enough for me.