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texgal, if you can, would you please keep track of these two girls to see if they do initiate and become involved with their chapters? i know that this would be an unscientific poll at its best-but i would be interested to know, and i venture to guess that others would too.
i know of several girls this recruitment season who kept getting invitations from chapters that they had ranked low. they had to go back, and they were not happy about it-however, being the genteel ladies that they are, and having been raised properly, they were gracious at the parties. they did get their #1 choice of bid, and are quite happy -i don't know what woud have happened if their bids had not worked out they way they wanted, and if they had gotten a bid from the houses they ranked low every day. i don't like forcing someone to go somewhere they do not want to go-these women are old enough to vote, and live away at college. aren't they old enough to decide whose invitations they accept or decline?
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