I just wanted to say that I rushed my freshman year, Spring semester (which is formal recruitment for us) and I got dropped by my #1 choice. It was really disheartening especially since my friend got a bid to my #1 choice and my roomate got a bid to another sorority. Returning to my room that night to see the welcome sign posted on my door made me cry even more. It was very upsetting.
Then, sophomore year Fall semester, I built up the courage to go back to recruitment. During fall we have informal recruitment so PNM's can go to whichever org they want...I chose to just rush my #1 choice. It ended up being really successful because they gave me a bid!!! And now I belong to Phi Sigma Sigma my #1 choice! And on top of that I found out that the reason I got dropped was a total mistake. So I encourage your daughters to try again! You never know!